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Idk, this is kind of a last straw thing I guess and idk how long this will even be, or what exactly I'm going to say. I'm the girl that everyone says is sweet and kind, open and honest, but never the one anyone seems to want more than a friend. No offense but I've got enough friends. I was married and yes I have children, 4 to be exact, and they all have the same father, the man I was married to. So before I even go any further, if that isn't your thing. Thank you and have a good day. I'm not looking for a baby daddy, my kids have a father. I'm just looking for someone to actually be there and love me for me and I don't get why that is so hard for some people. I'm heavily tattooed and have piercings. I love all kinds of music and listen to just about everything.
Oh you're still here? well i need a guy with an amazing sense of humor. I'm African American and I love white guys. Sorry to anyone else and not trying to hurt anyone's feelings it's just my preference and what I like. So I guess if you made it this far and didn't stop reading, you're either crazy intrigued or you're mildly interested. Either is fine with me.

I'm not here to pump myself up, I'm just a silly goofy southern girl, with a big heart. I'm a mother first and always. My children are my world,

I'm open minded and out going. I enjoy having a great time. I love to sing and enjoy listening to all types of music. I also enjoy dancing, cooking, being outside, watching movies and funny shows, tattoos and piercings, laughing, romance, reading and writing poetry. I'm just genuinely a cool chick and just look for my match. I love white guys and no its not just something I started or some experiment for me.

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Height5' 4" (163 cm)
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorOther
Hair LengthShort
Best featureEyes
Body ArtBelly button ring, Inked all over, Strategically placed tattoo, Visible tattoo, Other
Health ConditionNo special Health Conditions
My attractiveness:Average


Relationship StatusSeparated
Has childrenThree or more
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationIt gets a bit crazy sometimes
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Have PetsDog
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyAdministrative / Management
Employment StatusHomemaker

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesCartoons, Documentaries, Movies
Favorite TV showsbobs burgers, aqua teen hunger force
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller, Adult
Favorite moviesnightmare before christmas
Music typesRap, Rock, Metal, Pop, Blues, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Punk
Favorite artistsblack veil brides, Michael Jackson, 3 days grace, avenged sevenfold. papa roach, in this moment, halestorm, manson, bullet for my valentine
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, TV, Movies, Internet, Games, Clubbing, bar Hopping, Dancing, Family, Photography, Cooking, Computers


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorOutgoing
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Nerd
My great timeHanging out with friends, Partying, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / bars, Drinking, Reading a book, Playing video games, Going to a concert
Always wanted to tryskydiving


Political viewsI don't like politics
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeleave a mark and to try and make as many people happy as I can

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
Look for in a partnerHonesty and openness with an willingness to live life, not just exist. He's got to be white, its just what I love. Not trying to offend anyone but everyone has a preference and that sugga is mine.

Someone with an amazing smile and personality to match. He must be able to make me laugh as that is something so important to me. Must love children and willing to be there but not try to take over as their father because they have one already. I'm looking for my counterpart, my match.

A guy that can handle my goofiness without thinking I'm too silly. Someone who is romantic and still has a bit if chivalry in him.

A guy who is after something real and not just something that is "right now" He must be into music, tattoos and piercings. Have a good head on his shoulders and even if he doesn't know exactly where he's going, as long as he has a good idea of how to get there, I'll still stand beside him. A man who knows how to appreciate a good woman without taking her for granted. And most importantly, someone to love me just for me, who interested in changing me into someone else.
On the first dateThe idea of a perfect date doesn't really exist to me because we as humans are not really perfect ourselves but for the sake of this, the perfect date would be the one where once its over, I've laughed a bunch, made some killer memories and a second date was in the works